What kind of man, who KNOWS he is at the very least bi-sexual, would marry a woman he professes to love without telling her?? What kind of REAL man would then have an affair, WITH ANOTHER MAN, behind her back?? I can't think of anything else more hurtful for a wife, who loves the man she married, than to find out YEARS after marrying him that he is NOT ONLY bi-sexual, but HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH ANOTHER MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!
Consider this: If one of your limbs became diseased and couldn't be saved, the best thing is to cut it off before it can destroy the rest of your body. Can a marriage be any different?? CUT OFF THE DISEASED LIMB!!!! If you don't, your marriage will be OVER. DONE. FINISHED.
I WILL tell. And you will never know how many people IN YOUR TOWN know about this.