I have been involved with a married man for 5 years and I have come to the point in our relationship that I no longer want to be second best, but I know that his daughters have always been the reason he can't leave. I understand that having Daddy's love is the most important factor in them growing up and finding their Prince Charming. I have chosen to end our relationship based on the love his daughters share for the first man they will always love and I have no regrets on my decision, I just don't know how to tell him that we can only be friends at this point in our lives, so I thought it would be best if I used this site to help me.. I am not a vindictive person, so I want this to be as subtle as it can be. I am over being the other women. If you cares for me so much then you should of left your wife by now. I do not want any communication from you ever again. I’ve wasted 5 years of my life on you and I refuse to waste anymore of my precious time. Hope you have a happy life with your wife.