Some time back, I had an affair with a married friend named Samantha (I was married at the time too). It was a short affair, but very passionate. We'd had a major thing for each other way back when she was still dating her husband, but never acted on it until much later. Our bedroom and personality chemistr told us that we should have hooked up way back when and would have been perfect together in another life. We had decided to go back to a platonic relationship though since neither one of us wanted to see her family torn apart.
Fast forward a couple of years. Her marriage ends and she calls me up (my marriage had already ended). We spend a very sexual and emotional weekend together, and it finally looks like we have our chance to be together. Within days though, her and her husband reconcile. That's cool I guess. But it wasn't a real reconciliation. Since they've gotten back together, she's had at least 4 random hookups with guys she's met from www.plentyoffish.com and has since called me to ask me to participte in both a mmf and a mff threesome. She's told me she really enjoys sex with me, but isn't willing to give up her new liberted sexual lifestyle.
Now I know that the fact that she cheated with me speaks volumes. But nobody can really form an opiion unless they knew what was going on and the emotions involved. I guess I'm just bitching because she turned into such a slut in such a short time.