Deanna, you're one of my closest friends and you're getting married. I know it should be a very exciting time for you and I know you love, or think you love your fiance. But you know lately you've been having cold feet and having second thoughts. This is normal, to a point, and I think you're beyond that point. You're beautiful, intelligent, and you have every guy you meet eating out of your hands. The problem is that you play these other guys like you're still looking around and it's obvious marriage isn't the answer for you right now. You should listen to all your bridesmaids and trust your own instincts. It's not too late to change your mind.