David and I dated from October 11, 2007 for almost five (5) years, until October 9, 2012 when he was caught cheating (we were apart from June 2008 to mid-September 2008). David always told me repeatedly that he was faithful to me and that he would never cheat on me and I believed him. In fact, in April 2012, after he was married, he specifically said that "we were monogamous and that another woman would never be our problem." While we dated, when David and I talked about cheaters he would refer to them as “scumbags”. I wonder what name he should be called for being intimate with me, while he was dating, engaged and married to RC.
David was intimate with his wife (girlfriend until March 2012) and I for years without letting us know that he was seeing both of us. David would lie to RC and say that he was working when he was me. He would lie to me and say he was working when he was with her. David continued to be intimate with me while he was engaged and after he was married. Even a few weeks after he was married he was intimate with me. Specifically, the first week of April 2012, David came to visit me and said he was coming from headquarters because; he had to change his health plan. On that day we were intimate. What type of guy would continue to sleep with another woman, while being married and deny being married? This guy is such a scumbag that he would never admit that he is married and, he even lied that he is not attracted to his wife’s type. This jerk is such a malicious liar.
On October 3, 2012, someone told me that David got married in March 2012. I asked him and he denied it. Since I could not get any information from David, on October 9, 2012, I went to his wife, RC and it was confirmed that he was married. On October 9, 2012, while on the phone with David and his wife, I said “you are married”. David said, “and”. I said he had being intimate with both of us, year after year and that I had given his wife, pictures and other evidence. His only response “terrific, thank you”, “thank you”, then he hung up the phone.
This guy lived a double for so long, yet now he is upset that I went to his wife to find out the truth. I went to find out the truth because, he would not admit to being married or being with anyone else. He is the one who victimized both of us, by lying and cheating on us. I am very fortunate that I am now spared from a pathological liar and cheater.
David, a **PD Detective, definitely fits the stereotype that police officers are cheaters. Beware of cheaters like this, especially if your husband or boyfriend work varied hours.
David is self righteous and makes people think he is a moral person. So, I am doing this posting for principle and to alert people about his true character. He will say that I am crazy for doing this post. He is the crazy one for cheating the way he did. If people would expose cheaters, we would know who to say away from.